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Starting Fresh. Again.

A Fresh Day

So. A little bit of time has passed between my posts once again. Shocker. šŸ˜‰ For those of you rejoining me here as I’m starting fresh, from the bottom of my heart, thank you.

Many of you have followed my story online since I created my website and started blogging in 2015. Just before then, Iā€™d done a major life reset by leaving my job of 16+ years, moving solo from NYC to Florida, and publishing my first adventure-mystery novel.

Thatā€™s what I call a pretty good reset. A pretty eye-opening one, too.

Iā€™d spent most of my life prior in a semi-content stasis with little large-scale change, and oftentimes loaded with feelings of boredom and loneliness. That first major reset has been hugely wonderfulā€”not without problems, of courseā€”but worth the world to me.

Something I tried to learn from that shift is how to be comfortable with change.

Because periodically since then, Iā€™ve been hitting that reset button. Write and publish novels? Ding! Insinuate myself into the design and construction fields? Ding! Design and renovate fixer homes? Ding! Which of late has been both my major time draw and my creative outlet. Utterly challenging, utterly rewarding.

And now, close to 10 years later, Iā€™m facing another potentially huge reset. In some ways, I feel Iā€™ve come full-circle, because Iā€™m now able to refocus on writing. This came about in a frustrating, wacky wayā€”and let me tell you, itā€™s been a year, againā€”but Iā€™m working on my flexibility and am focusing my creativity once more on writing. It feels a little like coming home. šŸ™‚

So, starting fresh for me, with this, certainly isnā€™t starting from scratch. More, itā€™s revisiting where my heart took me before, and finding new avenues to happiness. Itā€™s about keeping my head up as I wander, looking forward instead of down. Not because of FOMO, rather, because of the importance of paying attention to and appreciating whatā€™s here and now. The little things, like ducks, and the big things. šŸ˜‰ Of course, it helps to exercise that olā€™ peripheral vision. Like the rest of you, I try to keep from stumbling on the sidewalk cracks or getting tossed by a rogue wave.

Looking Ahead to a Fresh Start
Looking Down Does Help

And as ever, focusing reminds me of all that I have to be grateful for: life, love, home, health, the list is long and worth reflecting on. Always, but especially when life throws those unexpected resets your way. šŸ˜‰

Thanks again for spending time here with me. Iā€™m still slow to dive into social media, but Iā€™m gradually returning to a few bits I enjoy, where I can engage with my friends and readers. Hope to see you there. And here again, soon!

#grateful #keepwriting #keepreading #writingcommunity #readingcommunity

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Love in a Time of Corona

Well. Todayā€™s reality in no way, shape, or form is anything like what I couldā€™ve imagined one year ago.

Last May (May the 4th Be With You, to be exact for my Star Wars fans), my husband and I finally celebrated our wedding by renewing our vows in front of our family and friends. We had such an incredible time, sharing the experience with loved ones from far and near who couldnā€™t be with us the first time around.

Things are so different this May. Weā€™ve now been living with the specter of the coronavirus (COVID-19) for many months, and life is so bizarre. I havenā€™t blogged in eons. Partly, because doing so feels more than a little out-of-whack with all thatā€™s been going onā€”all the devastating loss, all the confusion, all the misinformation that surrounds us.

Iā€™ve had to curtail my time spent online and on social media. Reading incessantly about the deaths and the lack of answers took an emotional and mental toll on me. Itā€™s too easy to become overwhelmed. And I havenā€™t wanted to add to the bullshit by becoming part of the noise.

Iā€™ve also continued to work at my other job, considered an essential business. Increased hours there have wiped me out, but also, the presence of so many customersā€”people who shouldā€™ve stayed home but couldnā€™t take the cabin fever and so they ventured outā€”has added to my stress level.

That said, though, I still feel the tug of the blank page. I long to tell my stories and, hopefully, to bring a few moments of enjoyment or happiness or escape to my readers.

So I decided to write this blog post. And while Iā€™m brainstorming subplots before beginning Book 3, Iā€™ve written a short story I plan to publish soon, a creepy little affair with a fun twist. I really love writing in a different genre while getting my head together to work on a novel. I have to say, writing definitely helps sort me out and feel human again. šŸ˜‰

And so it goes.

As for me, Iā€™ll do my best to keep posting periodically. To check in and hopefully offer a mini diversion from reality.

To you, my friends and readers, I wish you all safety, peace, health, comfort, kindness, and patience. We have a long road to travelā€”and everyoneā€™s path will be differentā€”but we have made it this far. We can make it the rest of the way.

Sending six-feet-distant virtual hugs to you and yours. #grateful #keepwriting #keepreading #staysafe #community

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Why I Decided to Self-Publish: An Indie Authorā€™s Perspective

I have exciting news, readers: my second novel, now OFFICIALLY named Treasure Bound, will be published this month! Woo hoo! The road to publishing this book, the sequel to Emerald Obsession, was long and jarring, so Iā€™m all the happier for its coming release.

The preparation these past months has been tedious. As an indie author, tackling the essentials of pre-publicationā€”like editing, conferring with the Library of Congress, obtaining ISBNs, designing the coverā€”is crucial and a tad nerve-wracking (and ultimately very worth it).

A fun exception to the nervy parts is that while tackling those tasks, I encountered a number of curious folks who asked why I decided to self-publish. Well, that question got me to thinking. šŸ˜‰ Considering I blog about the writing life, I realized I had a great topic to share with my audience.

EO ebook and print books

If youā€™re trying to make the indie-vs-traditional decision for your book, spend some time discovering what your goal is and who you want to reach. Why do you want to send your story into the world? Many factors will weigh in on your final decision, as they did for me. But figuring this out, or at least giving thought to your goal will offer you a good starting point.

My original decision to self-publish came about eight or so years ago, prior to the release of Emerald Obsession, and I havenā€™t once regretted that choice or changed my mind. Before I scoop you on why I chose indie publishing, Iā€™d like to share something that not many of you know. When I wrote my first (still-unpublished) novel, Blind Notice, I decided to try the traditional route. Self-publishing, while not in its infancy back then, was still fledgling, full of tricky bits, and daunting.

Let me add a couple of quick points here for consideration: first, for anyone with a connection in the industry, absolutely ask for their input and advice. So many good things can come from a mentor, or someone able to direct you to the right source for help. The experience and wisdom of those whoā€™ve traveled a similar path is invaluable.

Second, totally my gut feeling, but I truly believe any writer looking to put her- or himself out there should try the traditional path, at least for a short time, to experience that process regardless of the outcome.

Back to my ā€œtraditionalā€ journey: I researched and found receptive agents in my genre, wrote and rewrote and polished my query letters, kept an Excel file of my efforts, and then received a number of polite rejections. That taught me a ton about persistence and belief in myself. But the whole process felt like it took an eternity to receive constructive feedback.

You know by now Iā€™m someone who likes to learn and experience things. So you understand why I wanted to pursue traditional publishing, even knowing I was competing with scores of other mystery writers, vying for the attention of a small group of agents, and then publishers. And, ultimately, I failed.

But through all of that, I continued to work on my craft. During this time, I began writing EO. I was dealing with the death of my cousin, who had been my biggest champion (and not dealing well, I have to add), and I felt the driving need not to waste precious time waiting on other people. I grew frustrated with the length of time it would take to make any publishing progress, and I became determined to keep the fate of my work in my hands.

And thatā€™s when I began to seriously research self-publishing options.

So, what made me commit? The short answer was (and still is, despite how long TB has taken) the speed and the control of the process. For me, those two items are intertwined, so I donā€™t rush either one. And now, for authors looking to earn a living writing (eventually, please, God and fingers and toes crossed!), there are broader opportunities available with self-publishing.

Even so, a ton of work and time goes into producing a quality bookā€”and considering my desirousness of becoming a worldā€™s best-selling author šŸ˜‰ ā€”I really, really do my best to make sure the work is done, and is done with the highest quality possible. Of course, by that I mean I pay the pros to edit my manuscripts and to design my book covers.

To be treated as a professional author, my book must meet or exceed the professional standards of any other. The writing must be the best I can make it, the book must have an experienced editor review it, and the cover must be the most compelling sales tool my designer and I can create.

There are a lot of ā€œmustsā€ in that paragraph. But those are the requirements of the professional world, so theyā€™re my requirements.

With constant change in the industry, traditional publishers are mandating their newbie authors handle the bulk of their own marketing. This is the other reason I chose the indie route. Iā€™m not a huge fan of plugging the books myself, but I believe in my stories, and so I will. But with having to manage the marketing in both cases, Iā€™d rather retain the creative control and ownership of my timeline that comes with self-publishing.

So the best thing for me is to continue to write at my own pace, produce the books I want to read, publish them myself as expertly as I can, and keep on writing.

And thatā€™s the trick, my friends. For those who want to write, keep on doing so. Writing more will make you a better writer. So will reading more. Sharing your words with critique partners will also make you better. And becoming better will make you want to share your gift. I say, go for it!

But before you go, haha, you may want to check out this post, ā€œShould You Self-Publish Your Book? 5 Essential Questions to Help You Decide,ā€ from a website I enjoy, thewritelife.com. The author, Blake Atwood, has relevant advice to help you decide which choice would be best.

One last thought: whichever path you choose, and for whatever reasons, donā€™t forget you may need to reassess at some point. Or consider new options. Try to stay true to the path that makes sense for you and your goals. If an agent or traditional publisher knocked on my door, would I answer? Sure, Iā€™d let them in and see what we could work out; after all, thereā€™s that whole ā€œworldā€™s best-selling authorā€ thang for me to consider. Haha. šŸ˜‰

Old-school printing press
New-school printing

Which choice will you make? Tell me in the comment section below, or directly at carolyn@carolyngreeley.com. Would love to hear from you. šŸ˜‰ Happy writing and reading, all.

PSā€”Stay tuned for Treasure Bound release details and cover reveal! Coming soon!

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